Love and sex are Congenial to each other

Although called a Kamasutra nation still India is way back in terms of understanding love and sexual preferences. In India Love and sex are both manipulative thoughts as girls desire not for a person who is robust in nature but the one who can show the power of money, politics, and fame attached to it. The moment a girl knows that a person is a political bigwig with some good amount of money with him she gets attracted towards him without thinking about the far-off consequences.

I am not much aware of the personality traits of our P.M. and C.M. as I do not believe in searching for any personality offside behavior over the internet thinking that too each to his own, but if we see yesteryears greats like Late Sh. Rajiv Gandhi, it was known that he carried a good relationship with many of the stalwarts of that era.

Not getting too personal into such thoughts, Indian women who are from the middle class has a continuous craving for having sex or illicit relationship without thinking the far-off consequences of destroying their own family and also the future of their children. However, open our society is that extramarital affairs are still frowned upon and it leads to various repercussions in the society which takes much time to heal.

Many of the homes have got destroyed just because of that single one night sojourn with the relationship going for a toss. Also, nowadays with the internet being a factor where everything is like getting snooped it is not easy to hide the extramarital affairs and also it takes a very ugly turn in life when such things come out into open.

Now, the only way to curb is having an immense love for each other but the question is how it can be obtained. The simple way is to get hitched with only that person for whom you have respect in your eyes. Love and sex are two different things which are congenial to each other but when it comes to giving respect to an individual however bad is the relationship things will never go out of control in life.

Love actually never sees the physique, age difference or the social status only if there is an iota of respect for each other. It is very much necessary to understand that getting married to someone without having a likeness or fondness for each other is about culling each other's happiness at the same time you get married.

Your own wish to get married to someone rich can take an ugly turn when the person gets deprived of happiness in a home where you do not get respect. It goes both ways which mean to say that the person whether he is a boy or girl could try to show much of love only in name but at a certain point in life will feel that social pangs from inside where he or she may try to break free of the shackles and get away from each other.

Now, just think of a relationship where Husband and Wife must be carrying their relationship in a way which is jovial and at the same time with good sex life but maybe any third angle just in the name of creating a panic in the relationship could destroy the entire family structure. Most of the time it happens from the very nearest of the person in your homes such as your own brother or sister in law or else the person who is the nearest in terms of your husband which is the brother or any nearest relative of your own family.

It is to be seen that even if there is no sexual relationship between a family which is any extramarital affairs most of the time snatching each other's happiness is more in the various other social ties which take the relationship to the toss. Also, it is not necessary that every relationship of the Husband and Wife is based on true love or one can say that sometimes woman herself is responsible for giving enough opportunity to the husband for destroying his own family by giving social independence in terms of having illicit relationship with another woman thus making the mockery of the entire marital chord.

Even if in those terms when the husband comes out trumps then he is said to get a social status of nothing but a Saintly or Godly character and thus is given respect by the society which is unparallel to any other thoughts. It is very easy for a common man to slip on the wetland but one should never compare oneself with various stalwarts who are from the sports or movie background.

Most of the time when it comes to Indian subcontinent it is the woman who is found to be more treacherous as compared to menfolk and if the man is a humble personality then he naturally attracts much of the beauties in the tow, but one should never forget that making a Freind cry for the deeds which he never did in anyone's life gives serious implications and certainly leads to the downfall in life with never getting back to him or her with head held high.