Indian dating system is one of the most primitive one till date. Well, dating is said to be one of the most informal ways to know each other. if we talk about arranged marriage it probably has not given happiness to any generation as somewhere in the mind and the soul there has been a wish to marry the dream of yours which can be any girl or guy. In any case, if we talk about dating it has been a form of meeting the someone special in your life which cannot get away from the thoughts.
Now, talking about the very own middle class which has always faced the flake in terms of dating as many of the time there are hordes of people from the lower strata who run amok during the valentine days or any other special occasions and try to spoil the happiness of the dating couples. This can be said a common Indian scene where fucking is important rather than dating.
Now, talking about the advantages of Indian dating is that whether a person goes to cinema hall any common place of interest like malls or some park one or the other person will be present there to give the nightmares and with the recent bandwagon which has been joined by the toddlers who act smart and daring enough to pull the legs the scenario has become more than difficult for the couples to get with an act together in terms of dating.
The people who still gather the courage to get on the dating are hounded by criminals of all sorts who are here, there and everywhere. They could smartly create problems in your life by giving that credit card of yours to spill out extra sum as you pay for the sweet coffee as the cards which has become more connected through digital technology can give a person nightmares.
Also, the good deeds done by your girl or guy could ruin your life as the people who know such as the café person or the waiter can certainly give the number of jitters and it can turn out to be the worst case scenario for you on any such days.
So, dating the perfect guy or girl in the Indian context is getting difficult as IT IS THE PRIVILEGE OF THE POOR AND THE NEEDY while a simple person packs the bag and moves out for a small sojourn to get that peace of mind and thus date with someone through various ways of online chatting and so on.
Recently, I went to PVR Naraina, New Delhi to watch Manto by Sir Nawazuddin Siddique and found the same issues. People from various sections of life were there to see the movie...and although the people from small sections of people were sitting there but they did not passed any slang or comment but were sincerely admiring beautiful girls....On the other hand few Bihari guys who come in the mid of film created all ruckus while watching the film and also carried cheap liquor in the bottle to the movie hall. They were given this great opportunity by the hall attendant who herself was from Bihar as her voice resembled that probably the guys were from some Pandey clan which is a lowly caste from Bihar!
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