Since childhood, I have been as a person who has been harassed easily with all intentions to get more out of me in terms of seeking respect and social behavior. With gradually understanding Indian society as I was born and bought up as an Indian I found that the more I paid heed to such issues the more backlash I got back. Most of the time it was more or less like the few neighborhood families carrying on their long term grudges and when making them understand their own ways the social blurting continued in life.
At times being good to them is forgotten with immediate instance and slight bad vibes are carried for many years to come. People in India feel great when they are talked negative and their harsh ways could be seen very much into the entire lifestyle which could be observed more in the people of the city rather than villages.
It is all about the way your thought is to be considered either in the positive or negative ways. Social distancing is a part of the country's behavioral process although Corona Virus has projected it in the right way where people are trying to avoid each other's presence. The earlier childhood if we remember at every other point of time there might be people around you who try to create a blunt image of yours and most of the time getting oppressive is a way to overcome the mentality of a growing youth.
Most of the time the bullies character of a person could be seen carrying from one generation to another and people are rigid where they just do not want to change. Also, playing with the psyche of those who are self-centered or within their own family and at the same time creating rumors to a greater extent makes one feel awkward at any point of time in life.
They forget that whether increasing the social value of a person by false praise or getting into the psyche of a person by always demeaning him just also does not allow the person to get more than anything in life but revenge.
Such a person is further segregated in life while the family which sticks to themselves and understand the value of the society where understanding the basic ethos and giving equal value to everyone by paying respect get value in the larger cases or life scenario.
So, making your son or daughter a valuable citizen in a better part of life when life has got a better retirement package and to understand this world better harassment should not be inflicted and any people who get harassed should better ignore it rather than sticking to it!
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