Four decades of succesful life for many!

Since I have completed my age which is just 1 year above 40, I after many blogs thought about putting some light on my lifestyle. My birth was into a good family and after getting on my feet I most of the time went anywhere either with my Grandfather or Uncle and every other time with my father. So, it was but natural to understand the male psyche and if you understand male then the female is quite easy to understand.

So, I always kept everyone else above me just like a Grandfather does for his house and that although never made me popular somewhere down the line people loved this thought process. Whether in terms of love or studies I always tried to keep my only sister ahead and it made her gather more of confidence and abilities.

Also, my way of life was less of the fights and more towards a defensive approach where I took some deadly blows but hardly made any hue and cry about it while leaving it all for the God to think about it and thus he or she was there to give me back all the strength which is needed in life.

Most of the time I fought tooth and nails not to gain supremacy but to give all my heart towards the "Subject in Studies" which could keep me aloft.

My thought was to create less of a burden on my parents just like any other person from India, China or Japan and this lead to earning my own livelihood and between the well-managed gaps concentrate on my studies. While at work my concentration was totally towards the job or work process which created a necessary pressure and it leads not only for the others to follow the same but becoming a single example in the office made many to work with more accuracy and concentration.

It led to four decades of a successful life for many as my first three quarterly exams performance use to be best and I was vociferous in the classroom and there was less of unnecessary arguments while the aggression was better displayed at the playing field which was a good virtue.

Frankly speaking, I was not aware that I am popular among girls as I never ever tried "Sex" before marriage under any circumstances and was not even interested in getting any girl at my home when I use to live as a tenant and once I bought my own home I took to marriage but the lady was smart enough to have a kid and then fly away although it did not hamper me.

Although, I am not a Leo Tolstoy or anywhere near to Sri Munshi Premchand Ji my well-managed thoughts help me to have many admirers and detractors it was all because I followed the Male to understand their psyche rather than running behind girls which made me what I am today who may look nothing at first thought but deeply content from inside!