Better Safe than Sorry in my own life-ways!

With COVID-19 getting towards the possible lifting of lockdown things are getting towards a bit controversy and also people who have to lead their life with hard work and the others who believed in getting easy are just coming out at the forefront. Although, things could not be explained but understood that one who is meek and the other who is aware of his own existence could be a better person in thoughts and ways of leading life.

If one takes the example of a woman in your life who comes to get more out of your life by getting married to you is not necessary to follow you with the wish of giving every beautiful luxury. She may be carrying her own wish to give some major backlash by her own ways where it could be said about curbing her freedom and many other thoughts in life.

One has to understand that there is nothing called "Naya Zamana" or "Naya Daur" but the existence of human is all about chaining oneself within their existence and then give back to the society by gaining maximum knowledge. Any ability cannot be denied and the society has it's own understanding about the good, bad and ugly.

It is a well-known fact that however good people are with each other at the time of distress the near and dear ones only stand to be helping each other. The makeshift family and the makeshift arrangement do not work like that is done only in the name to pull out the maximum for each other. People who contribute to each other's household have some or the other greed in the mind to do so. Also, on the other hand, people who talk about some bigger community also try to take the maximum advantage of a person who must have some of the other knowledge to lift himself first rather than the entire society.

Lifting oneself is the biggest thing to do and also the nearest of the kin needs to be given utmost importance and once the sister gets married it is always good to let her live in her own ways. If the maternal family gives much importance then they are certainly either trying to overpower you or they have the wish to take you over and then you are always on their mercy from food to earnings.

Only your mother and father can think about lifting you up or the person who has seen the world through his better eyes and understood the world from very near could give importance to you.

So, the more you understand yourself and your own ties which are akin to mother earth which is a part of your mother, the father who is akin to the Sun and the brother or sister who are more or less the important planets revolving around you constitute to be the better ones in your life.

This primitive but calculated approach towards life made me feel better safe than sorry in my own life-ways and has given me the utmost importance rather than getting inclined towards those who are more or less a plastic card character who believe in using you both ways and then move to greener pastures!