Keeping one's own image upright is far more necessary before reaching a level!

In life, different people put their lifestyle and habits all according to their own level of mind. India is a country with vague dissimilarities where people do not find solace in their own soul but rather try to search it all over or everywhere else and thus reach to their own crescendo or sometimes go haywire in life. It all happens how much do you estimate yourself and the esteem which you carry in life. Seeing a person having all kinds of pleasure may make other feel sad but maybe he must have taken the far better-managed path of loyalty and love which could have to fetch him importance in life in one way or other.

A person who gets much of the adulation by the women folks in India, either stays like Salman Khan where he is flanked by women all over or maybe the other could be a simple person who could become the cynosure of all eyes but still stay away from the women just because they must be afraid to come near him. The reason might be the sincerity which is known through decades but still, a woman never loves a self-respecting individual and he has to fight on his own till the destiny takes him to the right place. 

It is good that India has become a pleasure-seeking nation from the long years of the propagandist who use to call it much of the Adhyatmik country with no wisdom but the people getting under various baba to get the sexual pleasure behind the curtain where one could find the same sob story of giving all kinds of myth in mind but the larger picture remained only to continue life with sex. In this way, one could understand that keeping one's own image upright is far more necessary before reaching a level from where one could lift oneself in his own eyes. Everywhere, society eludes you to become bad and then gives the exploitation a new meaning from where one could get nothing but only become a matter of laughter. 

So, much is the craze of using the body to get most out of life is that people immediately try to show all or bare all and in return get only a way to further exploitation which is not in the case for all those professionals who have reached a certain level in life through their own way of working and the atmosphere which they have created in their life to reach their destination.

One more thing needs to be noted is that the current generation is taking the word "Replacement" to be a more elusive way to make out the most of it. People try to find look-alikes or remove out the person too soon who is becoming the next best thing in life. So, unless one is very much careful with their own lives the little which a person has achieved could go in vain as people with no mind of their own try to overshadow or eclipse each other to get things easily and the name is not more a game ball as it has become easy to get anything without the name becoming big. 

Also, there are women or men who try to persuade you to get into a settled path and once you become successful in it look for removing you from the well-managed path to replace their own child which is not easy because the person who has put all the hard work and efforts ultimately gets love and adulation by the society and it is difficult for others to turn the table and get into the other side which could be seen in many of the examples and it is the old worn up theory of "Bazzigar" or "Zanzeer" where a person can blame others to make their game over.

One has to struggle a more in life to become something in life and success is an ongoing saga which carries throughout the life sometimes with the help of parents and teachers and the other time with the person in front of you who could have been the right one for perfect shake-hand and give back much in return without expecting anything from your end!