The Friends who have been with you since childhood and have seen your beautiful past but could not reach the crescendo in life are always ready to shift gears and change into an enemy of the worst kind. It is the biggest peer pressure in life when the person who has been sitting on your other end suddenly turns the table and you feel like losing whether in the game or the life.
At this point of time, one has to think that it is better to have a friendship dual of the wrestling where nobody becomes a winner and thus the strength and the weakness gets checked instead of playing carrom and chess. One could see the people placing guns and then try to challenge each other the red Indian style which is sheer foolishness in the days when life is precious and the God bestows mercy on those who save the life rather than those who try to push and shove you in front of any place of danger.
One person who may be at the height of success in life should not put any bait on the loved ones or even the worst of the enemy as it is easy to be alive rather than being dead. Also, if the person remembers the life since childhood getting fame by speaking against those who have helped in your upbringing does not give you any better certification or awards in life.
It is a common clue that Karan did not achieve anything in life after getting against his own brothers and mother in the battle of Mahabharat as he did not become either a good friend nor he becomes a good warrior. Although, giving back his Kavach and kundala was just a gimmick to get the blessings of the mother but she must have certainly said that the father's gift got neglected from your end and this will take you to the death bed instead of becoming a super warrior in life.
It does not make sense to write Dad's gift on your vehicle and then once it uses gets over handling it to someone whom you do not know after all it has served you as the master owner because at times the vehicle saves your life rather than you saving the vehicle.
It is always good to turn back on those friends who are not compatible with your thoughts and whether they try to portray themselves as poor being or any other kind of person you have to understand that life is all about glorious uncertainties. If a person teaches something in life he or she is your mentor from the past organizations. Also, standing someone by the railing of a subway car or a Metro train to remind of the so-called older friendship does not make you the right person to get back into the other person's life.
To be or not to be anyone's friend who has been a backstabber in every possible manner makes you understand that the world never changes and nor does a person who is a fake friend with no reminder of having a better understanding about love, laughter, and happiness of life which he or she has gathered with the blessings of the elders and not from any sinful ways.
So, it is always good to behave like Krishna who discarded old friends by giving them enough opportunity to be rich but always thought to be the Kings of the beloved and never tried to bring the astray friends near to their family members thus having a thick line between becoming a friend and a family members in life and always remember that working in corporates teach you more than working with sinister organisations who are in and out every other day.
That is the reason I Do not forget the tagline "We Sail with Sail" and feel fortunate that my father worked at Bokaro Steel PLANT, B.S.CITY and his good and bad ( as it happens with a child that he terms out some as good and others as bad friends) were there to clamp my hand at every place either during the by chance meeting at some official parties or the marriage ceremonies of his friends and family members and similarly my school friends were there behind me to get away from the FEAR FACTOR in life at every moment including my Teachers who were always standing behind me throughout my gimmicks as well my failure and success in studies.
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