Tuesday, 17 April 2018

NCR expanding but shrinking with thoughts

All those people who have been born and bought up in NCR or let's say those who have come 15 years back to this city must certainly feeling the changing atmosphere of the city. whether one talks at any customer service or maybe visit in evening to the cinemas or multiplex one finds an attitude which does not reflect characteristics of a civilian.

The influential or those who are average family background along with the lower profile which means the small household people all of them are carrying an air which makes you feel worried for future. The moment you step out earlier it was stories which were floating in the air of various nondescript person just to start up the conversation.

Maybe a way to do the time pass or breaking the ice which cannot be seen these days. Earlier with people watching the movies with peace and openness in mind which I could feel because I was new to this city 17 years back when I have come for studies and further jobs in mind. Fulfilling both my ambitions to some extent as studies have been completed till Post Graduation and jobs with my own thought process worked with some great companies and awesome people I can say that I am grateful to God for all they have done for me.

I stay with my mother at Ghaziabad in my own flat and if I go towards any of the places around Delhi it makes me nostalgic as I have beautiful past to remind me of those days when I carried an attitude which was of a carefree style and since a person totally of his own thoughts never even had a girlfriend.

With more prone towards work I use to do marketing for personal loans in the early days of my career and then stepped into customer service from where I took to Content writing which has become my forte. now, talking about looking for peace and fresh air it can be found only at those places where there are lots of greenery like a small forest area or maybe the riverside which I can find at picturesque location of Raj Nagar Extension, Ghaziabad. Thus a beautiful home at Ajnara Integrity helped me to carry on with my ambitions and helped me to grow mentally as a person with own food, clothing, and shelter does not ask for anything else.

Now, if we look at the same city rapid urbanization and modernization has taken its toll. People who are coming from outside immediately look for the ways to become either rich or try to get it by some unfair means. The harmony and love have gone away and everyone whether they are significant or not have the same attitude of lust which comes first and then thinks about any other thing in life which are more important such as food and social behavior.

The social camaraderie has lost and if you see the cultural aspect it is more about groups of caste and culture. People who have come in hordes from Bihar and Eastern U.P. immediately start jumping in the name of different political parties and they do not have the attitude of giving a reply to the political parties with more of an ass-licking attitude towards them.

You could feel an air around you which is of threatening without any cause, rumors which do not make any sense, a person who does not try to get involved into controversies is forcefully put into one and nothing matters from name to fame it is just a deteriorating thing for everyone. The attitude of degrading a person not from his clothes but from the mind which is akin to rape and torture of humankind can be seen in everyone's character.

A rape is something which hurts you mentally and physically but hurting the sentiments of a person irrespective of caste, creed and religion can never be tolerated even by the God. In spite of seeing the few worst communal riots in our city Bokaro Steel, I could not see peoples peaking do you remember 84? It is something which can be heard by the people from every child who has not even taken birth.

It seems the West is getting more civilized and we have forgotten the social behavior towards our seniors, elders and even the younger ones. Adding any name to the person from the field of media who hardly know each other is another way of duping the character of the woman. Sometimes it is so bad that you could feel nothing rather than getting a bit upset about it. We just forget that tomorrow is not the same and the worst can happen to anyone.

I do remember that as an executive for personal loans I use to come towards Ghaziabad in the year 2003-4 but there use to be peace even beyond Hapur and people use to treat each other ethically and with respect. I use to get back sometime around 1:00 A.M. in the morning and the same day by 8:00 A.M. again use to walk towards the Bus Stop from Naraina to Connaught place towards my office.

There used to be the social behavior of a different kind where there were fighting for files and applications but after sometime when the closing of the month occurred everything uses to get normal. Similarly, if somebody thought that customer service was to be all about passing lewd remarks over the phone and carrying the worst attitude then it was absolutely wrong as politeness was the key factor but sometimes there use to be outburst which even the customers enjoyed. It was the days which I have spent at I-Energizer and IBM.

Now with the current generation which has only the motive of getting into sex and sleaze, it can be seen that the lower income group behaves more properly and they have a good attitude towards everyone. Even the upper higher class is more of a society which keeps within a limited boundary and hardly tries to break the fence.

The worst thing which can be seen in India is the weakening of family bonds in middle class, their dirty slangs towards each other and trying to show superiority which is akin to evilness the middle class which has been given the golden millennium to India with peace and prosperity has got over and they are the new begging class whether it is love, laughter or loyalty.

If a person visits any middle-class society they are bound to face a lot of problems as it has stagnated to a great extent and their unending quench for money and sex has given them nothing but a way to show their evil side in the name of caste, creed, and religion. Its like they neither try to grow themselves and does not have the attitude to let others grow in life.

Interfering with every thought process makes one feel that it is just a suffocation to carry forward still the slangs like When will you die? and it needs to be with a stern reply why should I is needed as it does not make sense out of the question. Things have been made worse by the female fraternity who stays back at home as they neither care for their children nor think about the positive behavior towards their family members. If a guy does not have any wish to mix with any particular gender on the pretext of sex then he has to lead a life of a reclusive and every other day new stories are cooked which are part of the gossip culture from school to colleges and offices.

Now, the new concept is about finding out the lookalikes and making them project with various digital marketing techniques to bring bad name and fame to the person. Any designation seems to be small and the politics have not left anything from social behavior to be the representation of people.

This thing will not change and just to make changes in the atmosphere our Prime Minister hops into his personal Dreamliner by Air-India which is already into heavy debts and go to exotic foreign trips with asking for money and various other projects to be initiated which God knows whether it gets fulfilled. I think the first thing which should be kept on the lease is the PMO Office and his jet so that he should understand the various issues of the Indian people.

The global community should give him a treatment of the same kind which he is treating for the fellow Indians with no respect towards women and girls and giving no attention towards the unemployment and lack of education system in India which does not give growth of the resource.

The global community should stop giving the warm welcome to the Indian Prime Minister as he has not given any great importance to the motherland and nor to the Indian culture lest forget the Indian disapora which stays away in foreign. Hope the World is listening!!!


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