"Do not make a person Slave in Love"

Loving someone unconditionally is the biggest thing which a person can do to each other. Since, Mahashivratri is approaching one could understand that as a person who does not write too much about religion and keeps practicing of staying away in terms of discourses but certainly loves the mother nature and since Shiv and Shakti is more about the ling or the human sex organ, I would like to propagate that one should never buy love in life.

Do not make a person "Slave in Love" as if the male has an ego then the woman carries the superego with her. A woman from the heart is never worried whatever a person has said or is saying to her parents, brothers, and sisters as she is solely inclined towards his prominent person who is his supreme escort and that is either boyfriend or husband or fiancee. If one has to understand the terminology of love if a woman shows too much concern about showing the fact about the father that he is ill or she is taking much of his care then it is totally false and baseless and she is somewhere inclined towards some extramarital affair either in her own village or some other places and with leaving the primary duty of serving the husband she is propagating her own ways to fulfill her wishes which are not tolerated in any religion. 

If we understand the basic fact the man also never loves to leave the woman whom he had married and somewhere he has that fact left in mind that whether the society blames him or not but the woman ill will took him towards the harsh decision of moving away from her life. "If marriages are solemnized in heaven, then divorce is propagated on the home turf of women- which of course is the house of her mother." Also, one has to understand that one cannot blame only the woman for all the misdeeds but the man has to be blamed when he does not share the bed with another woman in front of the wife and then the easy way to get freedom does not occur due to which she does not get the man chained virtually and this leads to alter her superego and thus the woman cannot make the slave out of man. 

As far as the man behavior is concerned there are few who look neither a man nor a demon or ghost and they are the real untouchables who do not give respect to the food. Giving respect to the food and the food products is the biggest thing in life and the same goes for the Kisan or the agriculturist who needs to be understood in a more better manner in our society. Love is not about having sex but feeling good things about Mother Nature and then giving her the respect is more important where one could avoid pissing near the rivers and the orchards and if feeling the same of relieving then could find the nullah or the place which is better called a drain.

In this way, one could understand that relieving in open which was totally abandoned by the "Modi Government" by providing a house to many and also helping with public toilets has raised the social status of India. Also, I personally do not feel anything bad in pissing during the very much pressure release on the grass as it only enriches the feeling when the real grass smell comes back as vapor back to your body. These are the social facts which have been taught by our forefathers in life. 

Getting back to the point one has to understand that people who have the habit of putting up their sex videos over the internet either to earn or show their fun in life should not make it gory as our culture does not propagate it and one feels bad when we see the person getting all those slaps with or without mistake just to please the woman folks as it destroys an entire generation and the generation to come!!!

Virtual reality destroying the "TRUTH" making Fakism prominent in the life

With the world coming to nuts with "Faking News" syndrome and Mr. Donald Trump giving a clear warning signal over it one as to understand that TRUTH is existing to books and knowledge. The internet which has taken the world with a storm and the Virtual reality and Augmented reality taking over now you will see that the news behind the news or even the daily dose of the significant news has changed.

If you will see the advertisements or the news clips of late years such as the 90's era one will not find the unnecessary blabber of people in it and everything in life either in the mass media, advertisement or news use to hold a significance in life. People in the prominent positions use to have the courage to take right decisions and Think before you speak was the common adage for which we as kids use to get all the scoldings for any wrongdoing in life.

Even, our teachers and elders were responsible to shape our lives but with the virtual reality coming up whether it is the news anchor or the newsmaker along with common people are more or less interested in giving a new twist to the tale by adding their own hilarious ways to malign the image of any person in life.

If one talks about "LOVE" which was earlier a necessity for a human being has become a commodity and people including every age group try to make it just a way to satisfy their sexual urge with body becoming a way to display the inner strata and putting all out efforts in showing no mercy has become a way to propagate the worst of the deeds in life.

With the T.V. anchors who are seen to be out of the industry after putting their face all over the NEWS, Channel India is coming up with social antics in the news where the local boy who may have a little knowledge of internet and digitization may change the entire news on the behest of news channels where the anchor could be making the fun of the locality or neighborhood and it has become a common way to say that the views and expression in the news is of their own who is anchoring it and the channel is not liable for any shortcomings or discrepancies delayed in it. 

In this way, the movie of the short of NEWS reading has become murkier and it is more or less like whatever the media is propagating it is with the help of top brass who could be the local leader or maybe the unwanted person who is like or dislike by people. Thus, one has to understand that the channel which comes up with various serials are they helping in any possible manner to provide entertainment as because if the serial of the likes of Jhoda Akbar gives the disclaimer that channel is not responsible for the views and the people who are watching should not claim about any discrepancies in the serial.

These things where the horrendous example is shown over the Television and the people are trying to give the statements which do not stand as a testimonial of the true behavior of a person and his personality traits show that the world esp. India has not made the good use of artificial intelligence which is a necessity and the much importance of Virtual reality destroying the "TRUTH" making Fakism prominent in the life and it will make a blind generation in terms of wisdom who will not gather any substantial development in life and the way Taxshila and Nalanda got destroyed similarly the coming generation will be getting nuts in life in every strata and field of life with no socio-economic development to uplift the nation.

NETFLIX- As the answer for helping the survivors in Bollywood

Bollywood is all about survival of the fittest. Any movie buff would understand that with internet reaching every household and nooks along with corners of the world if a person needs instant fame or want the charm to be continued in every generation and society the only way is to gain acceptance over the internet. 

With the actors from Hollywood and the famous faces with many fans following drifting towards Netflix productions, it should never be misunderstood that the Uber class actors like Saif Ali Khan Pataudi and the overly acceptable class one person Md. Nawazuddin Siddiqui added grace to their charm by releasing their short movies over Netflix. 

The new genre of cinema which is the internet productions has given a new twist to the tale and movie releases are not confined to the Friday terror or the Box office collections when the only fate of the movie was decided through the collection over the box office. If one understands the popular culture then it is said that any chicken or pea-hen should get the best in their lives by not confined to their own backyard but explore all possibilities to get the best of the fodder.

To understand in basic terminology our Bollywood new found craze who have substance and beauty in them and the likes of Kirti Shannon who has much of the looks of a fighter of her own along with the Hellboy like a character of  Miss Yami Gautam through her movie URI-The Surgical strike which has also given the boost to the sudden air strike by Indian Air Force, after Pulwama attack such capable artist should come-up with few selected release over the internet and esp. the NETFLIX which will increase their presence all over the world including Tasmania which is coming up as the new market for the movie industry.

If anyone wants to find the link they could get the details over here: https://dontcallitbollywood.com/2018/12/05/box-office-report-2-0-opens-up-new-markets-big-in-australia-and-germany/

So, amassing good health to their money and getting acceptance in the overgrowing population of Indians along with English speaking generation all over the world with Englis becoming the most commonly accepted language such heroines could come up with movies over NETFLIX with English subtitles or entire English script and short duration movies will give them a better response thus helping them to enjoy the popularity and acceptance all over the world making a big difference with giving a thumbs-down to the arch rivals and thus the right thought will be NETFLIX-as the answer for helping the survivors in Bollywood.

IDBI Marathon Delhi results- The running genes found in army again!

The result of the IDBI Marathon was not that astonishing for me as the running is all about having the approach of discipline, dedication, and dreaming. One has to dream the right thought of running all according to the laps and if one has seen the Bhag Milkha Bhag movie by Farhan Akhtar he could have understood that entering the stadia Shri Milkha Singh watches the crowd and then takes the circuit in the mind to run as fast as possible after which he achieves the feat.

The only thing about running in India is that somewhere down the line the competition gets murkier as the current generation has got its input in the life of not giving fair enough chance to those who have a winner's attitude in life and thus most of them get to be called a Vagabond rather than a dedicated citizen.

It's more or less like if I can't do then I will be the hindrance in others life and then they talk about the Superego on someone else due to which one could see people from all walks of life trying to pull others people down in which they do not get successful.

Also, appreciating the other people's achievement has been a forgotten gesture these days and the only thing left in mind is to malign the image and any extent of thought is put into it without thinking about the backlash which a person can get in life.

Now, if one thinks about the Military or the Indian Army which proved it's mettle in running has given the way a performer comes out of this organization which is known the world over. If we compare the results of the Marathon like Amity Gurugram Marathon, then they are more or less a sheer waste of time for professional runners and since I participated in for the first time this year the only thing which I saw was the people from various walks of life coming in fewer numbers in the competitive participation of 22.5 Kms and also of 42 Km and the other thing was the discrepancies in providing certificates which have been a foul play and nothing more than that.

So, considering to be a runner who is just a rookie at this level as I have been good with timing and already considered a good name in the marathon events I would urge people to understand that getting into Marathon is tiring so going all out for every event will not bring out the name in the list of top achievers but be selective and find the right running event to bring your name in the elite runners list!

Virtual adaptation in the age of virtual reality!

People in this new age carry lots of prejudices about their ancestral life. Some of them feel guilty about the past of their ancestors which turn out to be only in the name of GOD as most of the time the harsh society uses its best of the fangs to show the murkier image which turns out to be nothing more than fiction.

The next best of the details is the burden of the title or the surname which is of the colonial era and is more or less like the Thakurs and other such names which shows the murkier past. To add the better bad thoughts are some of the "Hari Ram Nai" characters who do not have the habit to look into their own mindset and put their best foot forward to malign the image of others with their best of the tactics.

In this way, the burden of the good lifestyle of certain people also tends to become more of a practice where they do not try to tell the right amount of knowledge which they have gathered in their life but take the stand of the same in a different way of thinking where it is more or less like Ki farak panda hai...

Also, the thoughts of their friends who have been overshadowing their achievements could not be deemed out as the childhood ones are more of an irritation where they consider themselves to be still the bonna or the pygmies before the big heart one and they say Veeru ab jada lamba hai..O.K. and Jai apni salamati manate hue hat jata hai...

So, the fun is not only in the flipping of the coin but stick to your own mind where it says Waqar  ( Words) nahi nikla muh se...kya pata bade baap ki aulad hoga which is just a thinking as he curses the nature's best freind which is the DOG and leaves the stadia and by evening Australia which is A-USTRA-LIA aur dhadhi chil diya and India loses the first 20-twenty international at VIZAG.

So, a quick adaptation to the surrounding is far more necessary and it comes out because of the good deeds which a country like INDIA totally understands as whether you go South, North, North-East or even the West a person like me is known by all for which I feel proud and my family lineage plays a bigger role in it along with my antics which comes out at the appropriate time to show and win the hearts.

So, rather than thinking about the surname and taking the help of someone who can give you a few peaceful nights  after which certainly the peace and the prosperity can be looted by them, so it is good to keep your name aloft by sticking to your genes and also to the name of the parent which has been given to you by them as they see a lot in between your life and the real meaning of the proverb Put ke paw palne me hi dikh jate hai...

Understanding yourself is the bigger thing in life and then age is just a number and the number 11 always rules along with 16 as if you flip number 11 then it will remain the same and 16 if flipped will give you the bhoditsav mind which is the wisdom of 61 years in smaller age. Also, 16 is 1+6=7 which is quite a good number and 1+1=2 which is the perfect couple number.

Today, it was all in the mood of fun as the "THANK GOD IT IS SUNDAY" is ruling the mind!!!

Bollywood losing the sheen and queen with bad scripts & actors

Bollywood, which was once upon a time an industry with a great performance by actors and the entire unit including singer, musicians and other artists along with establishing actor has lost its entire script in finding out a new face for every movie. 

With people who are hardly interested in watching meaningful movies and the scripts which are coming out of events which do not give any relationship in today's scenario or context apart from few movies like Uri and other such movies it seems the industry is in a hurry to bring out movies just to complete either the budget or the schedule of churning out the movie at any cost.

If a person thinks of the actor who just does not look like having any specific name and appear to be nothing more than a vagabond and also not to get remember for long the actors and actress do not match either the standards nor they are enough in terms of acting skills.

It seems they are carried out to be the skin show and who is going to be the next actor for showing the all-out behavior or the syndrome from where exposing is the only way to give the hits. If we see the movies of the recent past where the actors like Ajay Devgan, Kajol and Shah Rukh along with Aamir Khan and even Salman they were known to give a power-packed performance. 

Also, if we think about the remakes then movies like Judwa which was the most rewarding movies in terms of comedy as a genre should not be given the status of a remake as nobody loves to see a movie of Salman Khan to get the imitation done by Varun Dhawan who could be utilized in other movies because he has shown some good acting skills in the movies like Sui-dhaga although not delivering the hit which was expected from him.

If a person thinks about an actress like Parineeti Chopra and also Anushka Sharma along with the few new or the established names such as Priyanka Chopra and Yami Gautam these are the actors who have given the industry enough of new faces and the only few who come after them are either a one movie wonder or just remain the overexposed body who do not fulfill the A-list of actors.

Here, as a movie buff, I would like to not mention the names such as Alia Bhatt along with Shraddha Kapoor and Sara Ali Khan as they are carrying the legacy of their parents and have acted in their blood and veins and are bound to act well in the substantial role which they achieve because of their merit in terms of performance and not because they carry big surnames in life.

So, one has to understand that Bollywood was a name to reckon in the past, not because the entire industry was guided by the Director of The Awwal number genre who was Mr. Dev Anand who himself was a great actor but could not become a Good director as he also had the habit of bringing out new girls for every movie and most of them turned out to be C-class actress.

It seems actress like Kirti Shanon and various other new entrants turn out to be nothing more than a C-class actress who is totally on the mercy of producers and can go to any extent for defaming the other people in the industry to garner cheap publicity which is the habit of the tinsel town. 

So, it is always good for the industry to carry out the legacy of bigger names rather than pulling out new names who are bad into acting and much into publicity as they do not feel comfortable with the sitar in hand and thus imitating someone for helping themselves with quick bucks will bring out the foolishness on their face. Also, it will lead to getting the movie halls run in the loss as the theatre will get occupied for a week or a fortnight and the producer-director will receive a heavy loss and to recover it in the very upcoming next movie the hysterical actress will go all out in terms of skin show and it will lead to total despair.

It is better to be wise and bring out the better person in terms of actors rather than put the industry at stake and bring out classics remake rather than making the remakes out of history genre just to garner the publicity where the film results are decided not by the public viewing but through the internet and movie rights which are sold at overseas and domestic markets!

Moving a tree is having better implication rather than cutting them!

In India where on an average the deforestation is the prime factor and the large grown trees are cut for consumption and also for the economic progress hinders a lot to the environment. The country which has seen much of the deforestation in the past decades and rapid urbanization has literally bought down many of the trees have imposed a lot more crisis to the already dwindling oxygen cover.

The big or fully grown trees which are an essential part of the ecosystem does not give any advantage if it is cut and thrown without giving any due advantage If we see a tree across the newly built, roads and various other establishments sometimes a total number of trees which are cut is into thousands. The trees which stand taller and are a rich source of oxygen are cut by the tree cutting mafia which greases the hand of the official and thus brings out the disadvantage to the country in terms of deforestation.

If we understand the economic perspective of deforestation then it costs in crores and industry reports state that the deforestation has cost into crores as a newspaper report has published it a few years back: https://www.hindustantimes.com/delhi-news/deforestation-cost-govt-rs-2000-cr/story-k5bt3PGqwLU8aTFpacccHK.html

The only way of avoiding deforestation is through the process of moving a tree rather than cutting it and since India has a large tract of land which is always present near the city, village or town it certainly makes an easy way to move a tree and plant it to a different place rather than cutting it.

If we understand the fact that an average tree takes 20 years to grow fully and then the advantage in terms of providing a pure form of oxygen is enormous then the moving of a fully grown tree and the cost involved is nothing as compared to just chopping of the tree.

So, the government along with the local environment body should keep in mind the good factors in the life of helping a tree to get a new environment and bring the best out of moving the tree and thus increase the plantation cover offering new lungs cover to the social environment of the people rather than depriving them of the basic needs of oxygen which is already dwindling in the cities due to thick mushrooming of the concrete jungles. 

Woman never deserves fatherly love in life!

A woman is always outrageous and outwardly in nature. She tends to be a know all character and knowingly or unknowingly is but oblivious of people around her. She is a born rebel, just like a flow of the river and the moment a person tries to hold her, she takes another path of her own destruction and the same time destruction of the entire surroundings. 

She has the habit of being ruled and guided by her own principles which nature has made for her and is a firm believer in her own ways and thoughts. If  she is given the freedom of choice she becomes the epitome of greatness but in the long run always tries to discard the person who has bought her on the earth or who nurtured her to the fullest and at the same time in the name of freedom does not love to stick even to the person who could have given her much of the love and attention but rather wants a personal void in her life to remind her of all the good things which have been done in her life.

Although a person who is tamed and loves getting protected by his man could only be seen in the western world these days, probably that is the reason The Thames is in London and The Ganges is in the Indian subcontinent. The Thames which is much of the tamed river which has given much of the civilizations to the British could be the example of a river which has bought civilization back and again to the United Kingdom even if the country was always on the path of churning much out of the other countries and is always been given bad remarks due to its colonial past. But still, the country stands taller than any other as the Pound is still the strongest of the currency.

On the counterpart, if we talk about the beloved Ganges which has been given the status of a Goddess has not bought any happiness for The Bhagirath apart from helping his family to attain Moksha and also did not leave any stone unturned in giving the curse to Bhism Pitamaha who was sacredly in love with her. She has been a course of destruction for the Hastinapura which could not flourish as because she has the habit of moving in the wilderness and do not give any importance to the person who loved her and at the same time was not even quite near to her consort Shiva as she always tried to overthrow his superiority which could be seen during the floods where she tries her best to destroy the statue of Shiva and makes her flow away esp. at the places like Rishikesh.

Now, thinking about the current generation which has the wicked money coming from all sources whether it is the Pound, Dollar or the Dinar have the habit of getting into all murkier ways and thus pressing the self-destruction mode from which they rather come out unscathed and find themselves better in the hands of pimps who knowingly put their life at risk and the parents are generally caught unaware of their antics.

It leads them to throw away their status of having a relationship status and Marriage is just a misery for the woman. Their economic and personal freedom lies in the choice of having sex with any age group as they are in the habit of adjusting and all the brouhaha about their social status has come to nuts with having their own wicked force of the people who move around her and after a certain time when all their antics get over they are not to be found anywhere, which is neither in the mind of their children nor the public in general.

At that time if their children question back about all the good things which they have done in their life, then they are unable to answer back and that is esp. seen with the woman rather than man as the man somehow understands her woman and children and give them enough liberty to move away but still is not spared by the public in general who has the habit of giving him remorse in life rather than understanding that he too has been given the disgusting status of life where "Being Father" is much more difficult than trying to be carrying the status of "THE CULT".

Radio RJ'S: End up as lockbuster's as they get conditional love by families & friends

Blockbuster's producers who are the Radio Channels RJ's as they put all the emphasis on giving their life best in the programs which they do on air, and are always under immense pressure to give their all-out performance end up in life with no fun for themselves but a khokhlapan which surrounds them in life.

If the person thinks about the various RJ's not to name them people love to listen to them, spend night and day listening to their musical programmes and share their love stories openly with them but they themselves end up as a person who ends up into a socially favored glamour girl or boys.

The way they put their life if any person who sneaks peek into their office will find that they are surrounded by many lowly people who could put their life into ransom and their job is to fulfill their weird wishes which could be running into as bad as prostitution racket.

If any person who is a close friend of any RJ's they will know that they have to leave a life of freedom with putting their expressive ways and are always surrounded by the politicians and the pimps who give much of their life projection to consider themselves as arm candies.

A person who can be a good person in your thought and an RJ in nature will be having a very negative side and the thought-provoking ways through which they carry is that cannibalism is their traits of life which is not bad but the weird thing is that they somehow are embroiled into some offensive crimes and from there neither they get back into a normal life nor they have the wish to carry themselves into a better lifestyle.

In this way, their life as well as the friends and family members life also get embroiled into murkier ways and certainly after some time the family takes the step of losing them and drifting slowly and surely towards other life goals which are about getting back into their own profession. In the meantime, the longingness remains for the earlier love angles in life for the DJ's and RJ's and the moment they come near each other then the same samaj or the civil society is there to put the taunts back in life. 

So, one has to understand that it is good to get into the friendship mode with such a person but only if your chords get attached so if somewhere down the line if you are connected through the mind then you will certainly get the best in terms of having a hearty laugh while talking about each other or if you are bad from heart then certainly your efforts of emerging in life as a friend of RJ or the RJ himself will turn futile. 

There are many social apprehensions in their life and it is better to say that people who suddenly try to emulate the lifestyle of a philanthropist cannot become a great one as if suppose you are solving the Love problems over the radio then you have to be mentally strong to survive on your own and then  make other person a survivor, if you turn down a job seekers request just to show yourself bigger in front of female fraternity or eat the accolades which could have made a person leap in life then you are the one who will be termed as a "COWARD" and not a person with morality and respect.

Shiv sena holds Elephant like a Camel

A very old adage in life said by our parents and elders is that an elephant is not guided by "Mahout" in the procession but is tamed by the presence of camel by his side. Respectfully to say about the Shiv Sena and BJP ally in the Indian Politics both have the same relationship with each other. The country has seen much turmoil in politics but before BJP starts speaking in tall volumes about the nationwide presence the Congress governance in five states hold the breath.

If the same goes for the Maharashtra politics Shiv Sena is the prominent party in spite of BJP being the champion player. Before the BJP starts spreading the "Bahut Jada Pyaar" and thinking the only one the Shiv Sena takes it's "tatvic" form and reminds of its ultimate presence in the people's mind and life all over India with the base as far as Indore and beyond.

It was the right time for BJP to patch up with the Shiv Sena alliance and with Mamta Banerjee Roadshow all over Bengal turning to be futile it shows that the Third party formation is not going to be the force and the Manforce with a one-man show in Bengal, the Modi showed his strong fist in the election rallies and he proved that the Government which may come to power back again in majority will be the BJP Government.

His presence among the wicked generation which pulls out the teeth harshly has shown that he remains current favorite and India is not led by anyone else better than Lakshmi thus the Kamal is the only flower which provides the base for Laxmi, and in this terrible equation if anybody wants to see the social presence of Modi Ji then gather the courage to speak about him in negative terminology before the better half of their lives whether the ma'am, miss, Mrs, Sis or Mother and you will certainly come to know that Modi is in them in terms of gas bubbles.  

So, better to understand that if I start thinking that my high society which has given me the status of  a loner back in life  thankfully do not allow me to get the voter ID card then I will send the vote through a letter to my original constituency "Bokaro Steel City", and in any case this quirky nation has the habit to condemn every good person as "I know that I am Good" not only in deeds but with better self-respect which is seen in my way as I handled myself since last 40 years of my life.

Mukesh Kumar: A combination of Gully Boy with Brahmashtra!

Although, it may sound funny or a few cliches involved if I write something about my own thoughts in life. Being a person who has a very lovable upbringing but that certainly made me a rebel of the sort was Being Argumentative was my nature. the arguments which I carried in life during my school days were actually somewhat of the Brahmashtra where even my teachers have to keep their mouth shut at times.

With my neat and clean image of keeping the clothes well ironed and the shoes and socks tidy but at times the Gully boy kind of dressing sense carrying on Fridays or even weekdays at school could might have frustrated few of my friends or rather have made them upset but certainly was not that smelly in the classroom to carry on with bad odour as I practiced not to fart in the classroom when I was in a socially accepted School which is Holy Cross at Bokaro Steel city with no offense to other schools of Bokaro Steel.

Now, thinking about the school days when life was more than a core and the bus which carried us to school was not a rickety one but the good looking buses and the total journey took more than an hour as the school was on the outskirts of the city with surroundings of lots of trees as it was on the opposite of the catchment area of "Garga Dam" the only dam at Bokaro Steel City.

If one thinks about the school days it was about enjoying the atmosphere on the bus with I being the most chirpy one and the songs as always on the lips from the golden era to the new songs which were topping the charts at that time and the best of the Shah Rukh Khan as when I was at my adolescent then the movie which comes out were the best hits of Shahrukh Khan, from Bazzigar to DDLJ. 

So, keeping the bus in all that great mood was my profession and I was also the darling of the entire school but with no personal attachments except with one girl who left the school after Class IX and it certainly made me upset for the few months to come.

Also, my only attachment within the classroom was more towards the elders which means the seniors and I enjoyed their company rather than the classmates or the juniors who were not my cup of tea. Sometimes, my seniors use to slap me to kick out the frustration of their girlfriends but certainly, I never felt sorry about it neither I showed any disgrace towards them. So, it clearly made me a hero in the eyes of their girls and I was unanimously more acceptable in their life sans sex.

My Brahmashtra as I discussed was my Jolly Le Liya beta, type nature which was certainly dying down as I always want to be in good spirits but few past years had been the most difficult of my life although I kept my thought-provoking ideas to the top of the charts and with that my brainchild which is this Blogger page by Google took shape by the name Silence Judgement and certainly after my Post Graduation my new sojourn in life is Running for Life which is Marathon Events and the third one which was giving the Fullerton was the Amity Gurugram Marathon, 2019.

Cuddling and sleeping together a different phenomena for helping against distress

Since the relationship in life is an important aspect and every detail in life cannot be discussed with prostitutes as most of the men in societies try to segregate themselves from their wife and fall in the arms of social prostitutes which is a trend rising in the Indian society. 

Cheating is the main syndrome behind such activity and the moment a person starts honking that he is not cheating, then there are chances that he or she has put his soul at risk and must surely have cheated in the coming days or in the long run during his past journey of life.

With looks so much similar and people copying either the people who are into the film industry or cricketers and stars trying to get into commoners making them vulnerable at their own step of life it makes one understand that mingling with people will neither give them publicity nor raise their social status and to say far more in stern words, it will only create a mockery of their murkier past.

It was good to see that stalwarts like Rajesh Khanna ji along with many other actors segregated themselves from the common public. Now coming back to the point where the title describes the "Cuddling and sleeping together different phenomena for helping against distress" it is very much true that finding good faith in your own partner puts you socially active with no guilts attached and also the long term relationship makes a person socially active within his own frame of mind.

Constant cheating just in the name of acquiring success neither gives the person any achievement nor he or she gets ahead in life and not only the Indian society but the world, in particular, gives disregard to such person.

If we talk about P.M., Modi his foreign visits did not give him an advantage as his body gesture were not that appropriate and it seems that he was more fascinated towards having some delicacies out of the leaders for his personal preferences which were ignored by the World Media, until Japan Prime Minister, took it as offensive and then the world suddenly got awakened. 

The sad attack at CRPF Personnel in Pulwama has not brought the World leaders not even for a discussion and it shows how much the foreign policy has dipped in India and the world does not see any good out of this country rather than a country of male and female prostitutes who are ready to oil and rub you for giving the massage and such people are termed as "Navneet" as they may give you sexual pleasures in a new way every other day.

Bollywood is all about BLUFF- Beauty & Love used for Funds!

Bollywood, the prime and the most Titan of the industry in India who has taken the glitz and glamour to the new heights and standards in India finds itself always for ransom. The guys and girls in this industry are so lonely from within and are unable to find a person of their own mindset to carry on their life. It leads to a wayward style of life and most of the time have to get into depressive mode as well because of the media scrutiny in every aspect of their lives.

Whether it is their sex life or love life everything comes at a cost of media taunts and people trying to segregate themselves by asking only for sexual favors in return as if they have their internal organs made out of some other world. Also, their affinity or wish to extend their life into the upper strata of life to become a politician lead them into the much murkier side as the politicians use them to the fullest and then they, unfortunately, they have to resort to booze and drugs.

Also, the nearest of the kith and kin even if they have acted as their nannies cling for a lifetime as during the earlier days of Bollywood when the star children were carrying their life the money in this industry was typically less and also the stars use to do most of the shooting to the offshore locations for years to carry on and it ultimately took heavy toll on star kids which may have taken a bigger toll in their lives. 

At the same time carrying the tag of the starry kids and sometimes, the tantrums attached to it must have given them a shock in their own mind where the chances were that they might be not at any fault but must have embroiled into controversies and it could have ruined their wish of living life with taking breath of fresh air in mind.

Also, if we see India getting developed fastly into a developing nation then much of the projects are being initiated not because of the ministers but these social administrators who have a better reach in the world front and at times people must have got close to INDIA because of some movies which have rocked the world. 

It is also necessary for them to keep the politicians who are rookies into the political scenarios to keep at bay as they do not care about the life of the girls and for them the woman's body is all about having a way to fulfill their excitement and give scandals to their name for their own benefits.

At the same time rushing for every small detail such as a Prince falling into the well and then helping with funds do not give them a bigger deal of respect in life but it opens a can of worms and going towards places from where they could get nothing in return to do the action as a commoner and spending time at "chawls" for promoting any of their movies could land them in trouble as anybody knows that India is a land of glorious uncertainties and people immediately understand about you through their own sources and it can lead to disaster of a bigger kind.

1984- An year or a number which awaken generation!

All the people who were born between the year 77-81 and 10 years beyond must be aware of the ghastly incident of the year 1984. The year which changed the nation from being a country frustrated with the atrocities of a woman who was a General Dyer in her own sense and the implication turned the nation to what it is today.

The country which was sure to bounce back after Emergency of 76 comes to a standstill with Operation Bluestar giving all the blues to the Punjabi community. The Tilakdhari's of the country who took forcefully plundering resources of The Punjabis in other parts of India apart from Punjab could not get much of enjoyment in fucking the beautiful woman of Sikhs and Punjabis.

Also, their internal conflict where the status of Khalistan was divided in their thoughts with those who were in favor and the people who were well settled in jobs and business were totally against it. Thus, the wish to create a new nation could not happen which was a fortunate incident for India, as if it would have happened then all the unification done by Sardar Patel would have come to "Zero" and India would have immediately got divided.

Now, thinking about all those fools who plundered the resources of the Punjabis got capital punishments in places where the intellectual minds use to reside or let's say the people who were in Government jobs. Sometimes, it does happen that the people who are Pandits categorically Brahmins and Bhumihars immediately resort to killing people in one way or other in the name of saving the country.

Their wish is to get more out of the resource and they also get the favor by some of the insiders in the community which is also known to be full of greed and thus they try to kill their own family members to make out the booty. In this way, it is well understood that although such people plundered the resources for a while, in the long run, they lost everything from the self-respect to the money and eventually could not get the ability to sustain the job which one gets after very hard work and blessings in life. 

If the title says "1984-  An year or a number which awaken generation!" it clearly indicates that a person who is born in these formative years understand the world with a better perspective and can think about the negative and positive side of the coin. He can understand how culprits get away, also how the people put pressure on families to get into the wrong path and how there is a middle path in life from where you first try to save the nearest of the kin and then move forward in life and get the better eye-opener to avoid conspiracy.

So, if one thinks about the people like us who although have not seen the emergency as it was between 75-77 but certainly understood the real meaning of 84 then it is more or less just like Ramayana where nothing can happen until there is a "Vibhisan" in the family  but unfortunately the Vibhisan is there to stay for the benefit of their own family and countrymen for the coming generation to survive and continue with the life of their as well as others!

Girls love mother made man

Today, is Valentine day and fortunately I am engulf in my own thoughts with the weather around Delhi NCR getting romantically best although the cool breeze is blowing and an ideal day to spend time at fireplace. Now, thinking about what a girl wants in her life as a permanent citizen and then converting into her own the First Male then it is neither the Alpha male nor the macho man and not also the self made man which has been a rhetoric from the past.

It is the person who is the mother made man. Here It is not a vague terminology as the man never dies in a woman's man but gets alive in his arms whether in terms of sex, life or laughter. The girl who is always perturbed and has a fear of losing his man to other must have not understood the true meanings of life.

Now, thinking about the title that "Girls Love Mother Made  Man" it is an extension to the terminology behind every successful man there is a woman which is the other way round. The man when gets a strong kickback by the woman on his butts turn out to be a great professional in his field and gets milestones in his name while on the other hand the woman in the form of mother gives love to the man and he flourishes under her tutelage.

The various people who have been echoing their thoughts in life that Success has many fathers, failure has one are not so succesful in love as they must have swapped bed with many woman in life and after which they say the vague terminolgy that you are just like a father figure but father remains father and he has all the right to understand the mind of the woman and children in his life and then give them an unceremonious exit from their life as the ceremonial exit is always after the death.

Now, if a person talks about me I have a personality which is always engulfed with controversies and have been given capital punishments by the fuckers and vagabonds who could not achieve the right girl in their life and then resorted to tortures on me just to fulfill their criminal aspirations thinking that the girls will support them in the long run. For them the girls have one answer to share their corpse like body in which they do not enjoy the sex but take it as a way to pull out their frustrations but eventually fail as they start creating a bad web around me just to show off and inflict fear in the girl's mind but unfortunately till the time they are rushing behind me the curtains are down either with the lookalikes of my kind or more lovable like father figures in their lives thus giving them only nought in return.

For me it is more or less like Thoda sa haseeno ka sahara le kar chalna hai meri aadat purana thus making the girls enhance their beauty in terms of study along with giving goosebumps and ofcourse thought in sex when they moan or namo in my name....Mukeeeesh Ji kash aap hotheee......!!!!!!

Sikhs responsible for destroying Indian Culture with their 84 Propaganda

I have always been called a person who has been culturally inclined towards all the religion and still carry the image of a secular person who knows me from near and is dear to me. I personally do not believe in destroying people by torturing them and share various beautiful thoughts of their childhood and past life in the most possible positive ways so that it should not sound absurd to them.

In spite of all the  indifference created by my own religion and caste people who terminated me from their mind and thoughts although I remained a Hindu by birth and an Upper Caste in the social strata of the Indian Civil Society, still following my own culture apart from few instances in life took the people's mind in a bigger storm and the so-called civilized society of pimps, prostitutes and presstitutes discarded me in a Capital city like New Delhi. 

The Politicians who are lesser in numbers in India have less time to understand the people's thought and mind and they work on the way how their ass-lickers portray a person's image before them. Unfortunately, the ass-licker tag goes faithfully to the Sardars of India, who post 84 i.e. after 84 riots took to the plundering of Indian resources and misguiding people through their venomous ways of destroying India and Indians and still ask for the cheques and social benefit scheme in the name of 84 riots.

If one goes to Punjab for a job they will find that the minimum wage policy is very less for all strata of people and they get very little economic freedom. I personally have seen young age girls moving towards prostitution and they are forced to have drugs. In spite of that people lead a life of camaraderie and try to pacify them who are known to be volatile at small instances and try to overpower you in the name of property and money. Even, if there is a little amount with you which could be Rs 10 in your pocket they will try to take Rs 9 or the whole of the Rs 10 and after that, they will say 84 Yaad hai.  

Talk about various riots in India from Munger to Meerut or let's say Bulandshahar and Gujarat riots which happened after 84 but none of them have got so much of rewards back in the name of killing their own kith and kin which was of course done by the middle class and upper-class Punjabis who have one single word to say that is the Holocaust. If one thinks about immigration lakhs of Punjabis fled by asking asylum from various countrymen such as the U.S.A, U.K., and Australia, New Zealand. 

They followed the same policy of plundering Indian resources and then buy lands and premier properties abroad but unfortunately, that money did not help them for increasing their fortune but only improved their lifestyle for few years to come. Once the dust got settled they saw themselves in despair ways without any money and finally spend their life into drugs and illegal selling of girls which is converting their offices into a whorehouse and the thought of having good food eventually was putting their woman shamelessly before pimps. 

They are always on a lookout to put their women and even yours on a display and one could see the woman in Chandigarh and other such places where they immediately ask you for sexual favors in the name of "three to tango" that means sharing your women with them or asking them to include you in their sexual rituals. If one goes towards Punjab they will feel how much frustrated because of this womanizer nature is the ladies facing their and they hung their head in shame at public places but hardly have the courage to speak out. 

In this way, one could understand their ways which is drifting from their religion and making their own mockery thus becoming a culture which is certainly going to see the doomsday because one thing a person has to remember that if the religion takes the spot of number one then certainly like Sensex it will either come down or will eventually get destroyed as religion is not about the rat race but it is about sustaining the life with love and freedom.

Waiting for the Bib Number 4246- Amity Gurugram Full Marathon 2019 to get clearence by Indian Apathy System

I, Mukesh Kumar, being a Blogger am also a Marathoner and as I stated in my earlier blog was participating in Amity Gurugram Full Marathon 2019 by the BIB Number 4246 and reached the 42 Km by the estimated time of 2:35 minutes, but till date, the record has not been put on the official RUNIZEN site. India is unofficially run by two prominent factors:

1. Amar Chela ( Beta word in Bong) Ekta bari banayega aur tumhare se bahut age jayega.... (i.e. My son or beta will make a house and he will rise above the rest)

2.  The Son of a normal person who was not a Feudal landlord cannot become something bigger in life and with that, whether the person is from a lower caste, upper caste or any other social system could be deprived of anything in the world including any success in life.

Although he must remain humble and reiterate good words considering other woman's and a man of the post of manager and above as a mentor the prime thing which he does not do is to send a woman towards becoming a whore in life. In this way, the Indian apathy system or the ganglords through various discussions over media and also any other industry trying to pull down the success factor and making the joke of their own country due to which none of the marathoners stay back in India and are quickly adopted by countries like China and Hongkong which happened earlier with few of the Indians could not be seen anywhere in the Marathon circuit now.

It clearly shows that one has to understand the proverb in life "LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP" and when the Marathon BIB Collection is somewhere guided by a Vagabond called Navneet Kumar Sinha who was a class 9 dropout from Bokaro Steel City, and is known for ruining many of the girl's life in Bokaro with the help of people from all sections of society and is operating nothing more than a pimp in the social industry then result may go haywire.

The only two brothers and the sister Badmash company from Bokaro Steel city, which is generally called the Sinha and associates and do not find themselves in any list as a civilized person as the sister and brother duo are knwon to be engaged in all nefarious activity from the Delhi to Ambala and Shimla railway line should not be given enough importance in life.

The second so called Pimp and prostitute duo family is the Verma family from Bokaro Steel City which is guided by two sisters and one brother who could be termed in the same manner. The mother of the most scandalous family who are trying to make big into Indian Political System are also trying to put their nose up in life through the help of politicians and pimps who do not help them rather than help in some few odd shows and of course they cannot be lifted socially and politically.

If I consider myself as a better person from Bokaro Steel City, I remained a mediocre person in people's life inspite of helping people from all walks of life in helping them through socializing and not indulging in any kind of body shaming techniques as I do not go towards brothels and try my best to be good towards fairer sex with also having a good comic timing which has been mentioned by Mr. Salim Khan in the Kapil Sharma Show as the show is sooner or later going to bite the dust.

Although, a person who has been standing tall and alone in life by the Indian Economic System and Political too is always ready to fight tooth and nails against all odds and Rise above the rest in life. Thankfully, neither my school days friends who considered me nothing along with my Teachers who were ready to upset me because of my argumentative nature stand behind me nor my Seniors and Colleagues who were considering me as a Challenger in any industry from Marketing to Customer Service and further into Content Writing stand by my side.

Still, I feel myself lucky that somehow the world recognizes me and my University, Bharati Vidyapeeth along with my Professors will certainly back me up in my every endeavours in life to become better everyday in my life rather than remaining a Mediocre and to stand apart and changing the world by my smile and words which are enough to give smile to all sections of society irrespective of caste, creed and religion.

Eat a tummy Full to have satisfying sex

If one looks to any advertisement which is seen even in the news channel, they propagate to getting the lack of sexual interest in the man and the woman doing overdose drama of Agony asking for sex. Such, advertisement gives the curious children who are just getting into their adolescent about the woman asking for sex and generally they try to enjoy unusual sexual encounters with their maid, then the homely aunts and further move towards the neighborhood.

In this way, the sexual mind tries to fulfill the needs of the woman but at the same time lives a big void into those children who become a promiscuous person in their later lives such as during their college days or once they join the office. The more habitual one tries to get more out of it and start counting the number of sexual encounters they have by making either a graph or a chart in their mind of fucking as many women in their lives and believe the same thing from other fellows.

Also, the approach of woman becomes the same who tries to get as many males in their stride by saying "abhi lagta hai bade nahi hue....aana mai tumhe bada kar dungi...." which certainly creates many issues in the life of the young male and it takes an ugly turn when the sexual exploitation starts at young age and although the person gets out of it the reminder lingers on as the same family male members spread all kinds of whorish news about the girl thus trying to pull down her image in the society.

The main purpose is either to blackmail her for a long run or make her a lame duck so that the girl should become a Payback option for him if she becomes successful in life.  In countries like India, many homes either got destroyed as the woman at a certain point either revolts or  maybe ask the male bastion to get the things checked and a chain reaction starts happening as it leads to loyal and the disloyal members but the problem is that both have the same purpose of asking the money and sexual favors in return thus making the woman poorer in every possible manner.

This leads to conspiracy after conspiracy and it either leads to getting the career ruined by many women in their lives or sometimes they do not have any more option left but to leave their industry and move out as a vagabond which does not give them the peace and solace and certainly they get secluded in their thoughts leading to cancer.

So, if one thinks the alternate to find love in their own woman it is as easy as a cakewalk because of the human mind, body, soul, and hormones are created in such a way that they get satisfied with each other and give happiness rather than multiple sexes relationships. The first thought about having a good sex life is to have a proper meal before sex and also eat something good after having sex as it is one of the biggest physical exercises which immediately burns the calories.

Also, once you start reaching 40 you start living for the remaining 3/4th of your life and the curiosity leading to sex almost gets over and the term menopause comes in a better explanatory manner. It is not to be seen in this scientific age where every detail of the body is guided through the medicines and the person who tries to get things settled in their life by seeking sexual pleasure with everyone looks more or less like the person who has been deprived of love since childhood.

At the same time, the person who belongs to the society of pimps and prostitutes ends up eating through various ways and become a marked man in the eyes of the police department and does not only ruins his own family but become a big culprit thus raising an entire generation of his own kind creating fear in the society!

Being FAV@40-Not possible for everyone!

I am going for the Amity Full Marathon 2019 on Sunday at Gurugram i.e. 10-02-2019 and still feel at my best in terms of running although has never went for Full Marathon in my life. The first attempt to this Mrathon will give a great change in my life and the weather and climate is favoring me to the fullest.

Although, I am getting towards 40 years of my age but the fitness level in me shows that I have got enough attention in making my body at the essential age by my parents and its helping me to see another great years of my life.

So, thankfully they deserve all the applaues, accolades and respect but certainly i do not feel greatful towards them as I think it was their duty to make me the person what I am today an they have done greater sacrifices in life although maybe they must have heard slangs in life which I understand now as I have become mature enough to understand how the world works for an average person in life.

thankfully, i have gone through all satges of my life and at times I was considered nothing more than a guineapig and there were people who considered me nothing before them and may still think the same, although GOD has been kind enough to make me strong and upliftt me at every step of life and I remember that although my Father was not so inclined towards God, still had always prayers on his lips for the well being of his two children, including me and my sister.

It was good for the greater interest in his and our life to move away from each other in life and then see us growing while he was there to nurture his fav kid who is certainly a girl growing leaps and bounds under his stride and the same goes for me that as a Son, I grew better under my mother's wings.

This shows how the nature works where mother carries the son as a river and raft and the father protects the girl as a mountain, that is the reason Ganga was there behind every better person throughout her inception on earth and during Mahabharat as well and the Himalay was with the Shailputri making her formidable against every rocks and boulders making her strong and determinant in life.

Now, thinking about me as a Marathoner it makes me happy that the more the world tried to pull me down, the more i bounced back in life and slomewhere down the line the thrust by the sister was there to be a protective one rather than becoming a problem in life with her bad antics which made me feel proud knowingly or unknowingly and it helped me never to get red faced in my life.

So, I hope this marathon will prove me as a Person who does not strive for perfection but like Dhoni sir believes in being a Finisher in the job rather than a Winner, Whiner or Runner in life thus completing my dutu towards Me, my mind, body and soul! 

Running is inversely proportional to developing the mind

"Running is inversely proportional to developing the mind" - This could be a statement for those who are not prone to running. But, the various factors which enhance the body movement along with the essential hormones which affect the mind, body, and heart get produced once a person takes long walks or goes for a mild running which is not akin to jogging. 

The running gives a simple person much needed stable hormones which do not spill out without any reason. If one thinks about the sexual hormones they also get blended well once the running gets completed and it also does not unnecessarily spill out.

Now, the concept of the gym which has become very much popular with the youth does not give much in life, but the overarching bones and ligaments which gets torn down for that person who is above or around 40 years of age. The gym is suitable for those who have spent time during the youth heavily at the gym.

The treadmill which is another machine which is a fad among those who look for running 10 or 20 minutes with the odd timing setup. The race time and the pulse along with distance do not suffice for a good runner and he or she does not get into the proper groove of running.

Now, if one asks me about the running mechanism which suffices best for any person it is the long distance running which is not about scoring miles but to start with the few marathons which happen in almost every city these days. 

The marathon which I went through was my first in the year 2017 were, I went for Angkor Wat Half Marathon and I went for the Half Marathon at my first instance and clocked a timing of 2:36: 16 second although it was known to less many from India was witness to it and I come to knew that  a Marathoner has born in me.

But, the seeds have been shown years back during schooling at Holy Cross, Bokaro Steel City, where somehow Hari Singh Sir, our physical Instruction teacher who was from Indian Navy has given enough impetus in our life by making a marathoner out of many among us. He was the first to introduce Cross Country racing and actively participated till my initial days i.e. 15 years of age and although I was not in the top 3 but always was somehere aroud number 12.  

This helped me to get into the best of the marathon runs which I have forgotten till I again started running and then the 1st April Marathon by Hindustan Marathon at New Delhi, 2017 helped me to achieve the first certification of "Esteemed Runner" where I went for the best of the timing at the age group 35-40 and it was 2:16:20 seconds according to Runizen.

So, I would like to give some light on the running aspect and it helped me to get that internal massage of my brain cells and all those people are fools who say that only psycho do good running. So, if the thought of running comes as an amateur then one should not get into the gym but start with warm-ups in the open air through the small physical drill and then go for running at the countryside because that adds to the beauty where you talk with the nature and the trail which might be the trees, rivers and also the animals which give the best to a person without asking anything in life.

Now, there are many articles related to running but the only thing to be known is that everybody cannot become Usain Bolt or Carl Lewis so long walks and running should be done according to their own capacity and cycling can be also another good option.  

Challenge yourself to your own limits and push the wall rather than trying to intimidate someone by the small guns which do not solve the purpose in life. Rather, your own sexual organ could be the right gun and to get it loaded with right ammunition you have to run.

                                                    So, RUN LOLA RUN....PYAR DA PUN......!!!

Woman enjoy sexual fight between different age male

My topic for sexuality in a woman is well understood although very predictable term but although faced by every person in their life cycle at one point or another. A woman who loves to check the testosterone level in man by giving the issues of talking about their sexual preferences and try to make such intimacy level through the talks before his earlier male sexual partner, which gives the person a bad taste of mind and the person simply gets irate.

If one think about the behavior in the animals they do the same when they try to get a future partner and thus they try to discard the earlier one as every woman at one point of time loves to have a person who could be the permanent person in his life rather than the person who tries to take her sexuality in a different way and just plays with her body. 

In the long run in any partnership or relationship the woman is the one who has to understand the pros and cons of relationship and she cannot be a pawn in the hand of a person who tries to show a wrong sympathy just to pull her in the stride and a person who is well settled in life in terms of having son along with a family to look after will only use the girl for his own benefits and that could be the political aspirations as woman turns out to be the real player or a table turner in politics who may work as a lady in the hand of politicians whom he could send anywhere to please the clients and thus carry on with his political stability.

Such a woman if they come to know their original position in their lives are nothing more than a social prostitute or a baby doll who earn no respect but a way to think about the sexual intimacy and maybe paying back just because the person might have bought some prominent post with his own big link-ups in the parliament or the big house of interest whether in private or public sector.

In such cases, the benefit or the interest takes both way terminology and the person are actually helping each other to stay within their position. Now, talking about the person or the male who are pitted against each other it's natural that the person who is younger in age will get intimidated as the person who is elder cannot be disrespected immediately as he has spent some great amount of time in life and has reached his position in life not only because of the girl but because of his own hard work, labor and dedication thus he has got some good respect from the younger one.

The good way to enjoy such a discussion is to have an understanding of both the person where it is the woman and the elder person in her life and try to heat up the discussion by not using any slang and in such a way that it should make him feel upset and if he shouts back then closely watch that the woman is taking whose wings under her stride or whom she is trying to protect.

Thus, half of the battle will be won and you will not be on the loser side and at the same time do not take a cross-question method and always apply social balm which should satisfy both the person your new love interest and the person who is elder will certainly withdraw and you will be considered a blessed one rather than a vagabond!

A man is his own father apart from the biological one

The biological father is a vague term which is always a bone of contention in many families and also across the various industry vertical along with the upbringing where maybe certain people has to listen the awkward terminology of being bastard. But the fact is that the more a person is resolute about his job or profession along with the progress in terms of job, business or life has to listen this word from all corners of the society. The simple answer is that the other person who is infront of him and use this slang has his heart and mind made sure that this person whom he is calling "bastard" has actually come out from a different soul and nobody including him could not overpower him.

If we talk about the woman she certainly needs a man or a father in life to carry his life on the right path and if she does not get one at certain points in her life in any of the profession as a manager or maybe brother from the same family tree or his own biological father she may go astray but if she gets the father in the relationship who does not overpower her then she can certainly conquer the world. Also, it is very much necessary that the husband should be more of a father rather than a person with working in her mind as a husband and then even if she leaves her she always miss her in life during the moments of ecstacy and she never gets intimidated by any other person in life.

Sometimes, if the vague term could be heard that "Sala baap ban gaya...." that connects to the attitude of a boy who overpowers every other person with his attitude and however maybe his height his vibrancy meets all the frequencies and then the song of his own orchestra reverberates in every mind. So, it is all about using the right word with the girl whether she is from any country or continent and if such guy is from a different nation rarest is the chance of any other nation allowing him to get into their territory for a long time than the visiting days mentioned in the "VISA".

The reason is the simple tag line which is "The father of the nation" as such person are born leaders who understand woman and talk or song according to their wishes and then they get the same respect by the woman along with animals and rise above all along with in their own eyes. So, getting that person out of his own realm is more or less very difficult as thet somehow get connected to the upper strata of the atmosphere.

Although, becoming own father is very difficult and in today's perspective it is just pointing a gun towards someone else or more over trying to create problems in other life rather than becoming a problem solver and it is not easy for every one to become father for everyone and for that the influence from the generation of forefathers make the right perspective to give the undersatnding which is inherited and sometimes also do not pass from one generation to another giving a void in the mind of biological father and at the same time there are circumstances where your own father could not find out such traits in you as you maybe the perfect chameleon to change the color as per the needs and create great camouflage!

Success after completion of education depends upon idividual merrit

Getting successful in any field in a country like India is very difficult because of the population crunch, a large number of meritorious students to compete for and many other personal factors which could also be termed as the leg pulling attitude of people where everyone wants to topple each other and move on in life.

If one sees that apart from clearing the competitive exams which is the first level to get that high level of confidence at a young age gives itself a boost which cannot be compared with anything else. In the second scenario, the person who carries through the much unconventional path of completing his education through various degree colleges also gets the most out of life as he or she stations himself at various lucrative jobs and other such prominent posts in life which leads to getting good life as compared to others.

Also, if one sees the way he or she governs himself one can understand that doing something in terms of finding the right opportunity in life gives not only an upper hand but also either shut the mouth of people or help them to blabber unnecessarily as in the case of being an Indian citizen the more the youngsters are coaxed about any particular individual the more they try to get successful by helping themselves in replicating their success path.

If we think that only the teachers, family members, and the neighborhood shape a person career it may be true to some extent but once a person takes any better path in life he or she has to keep their "own lamp to be lit" with more of a professional attitude and understand the pros and cons in life which changes every other day.

Whether you belong to any industry, corporates or any social services group along with the Government organizations and even let's say politicians with much of the media interference in life, a person has to remain in the scrutiny of the people and they cannot come out unscathed from the daily slangs in life. 

At this place, your own wisdom counts a lot and the way the parents of yours have handled life pressures reminds you of getting more out of the limited opportunities this country provides you but is also open for those who have a never say die approach in life and get most out of life with one word to be avoided in life which is "COMPROMISE".

Your Neighbourhood shapes your career or breaks it

It is true that your school and upbringing helps in shaping your education and bring out the best in you. But what about the time which you spend at home and then find the right way to grow in life. Since I have come out from a city which was more of an industrial belt rather than a cosmopolitan city I could share the pangs of how the society does the justice and injustice with you at times and how much of the indulgence is needed in life.

From a middle-class upbringing where education was very much a necessity and the food was in abundant whether it was the veg or non-veg as the family rather belong to an upper middle class where the grandparents were as rich or a notch above the parents along with the proud feeling associated with somewhat a legacy which was not so maintained in an authentic manner as the family has its own rule of individual achievement rather than showing things as a family tree, things were soon coming out to be getting scattered and as a male member I personally could feel more or less of all the mishappenings such as some major and minor accident associated with the family whether at workplace or homefront.

Now, if anyone can take a clue out of my life book, my education was completely into English Medium background and the family was small with only one sister and me along with my father and mother while the grandparents have given enough freedom to the newly discovered small family syndrome which was coming up and engulfing India during the early '80s. So, now if I would like to put some light on the headline "Your neighborhood shapes your career or breaks it" it is quite obvious that all those who stay at rented accommodation or the government accommodation has to change their homes and move from one place to another either in the same city or sometimes the duty is transferrable. 

I fortunately during the earlier years of my life saw three major home changes, where the family has nothing big in terms of show off but had enough for all the basic necessities which lead to a simple living high thinking lifestyle as father was a great foodie and at the same time very humble in nature, so much so that the most of the time used to cook food for the guest who use to come at home during week offs as he was an employee of Bokaro steel plant. the Bokaro steel city.

He certainly does not have any air around him but at the same time I gathered some air as I was more close to my Grandfather during my earlier days and he used to be very hefty and with iron fist attitude although humble at the same time but had gathered respect from all corners of society because of his less indulgence nature and more of a social person as he never differentiated between the small caste people or Mohammadens and I would like to mention his name who is called Chitranjan Babu or the Mr. Chitranjan Prasad jee.

Now, talking about my father Mr. Upendra Vidyarthi, he was a handsome lad with a great bod and was an apple of an eye for all the woman and girls either in the society or in his in-laws family and also in the office or plant where he use to work, still he did not have any airs attached around him. Since he was the smartest person so all those Bhumihars and Rajputs including Brahmins who were not so happy with his handsome presence somehow tried to dissect my family in the same way which you can compare with the movie "Shakti" which was Amitabh Bachchan superhit movie although I never went against my father wish and was very much loyal towards him.

So, now talking about the neighborhood my early days at Sector 3-C, 45 was great and I use to play with my sister and my dog "Moti" who was a brown color Indian breed dog. After the school, use to get over I use to get back and the homely feeling attached with no bad bent of mind use to bring good achievements in school and also with the neighbors and there was no such fight as the studies were going great and apart from some minor incidents things were going well in life. 

After, some formative years the home got shifted to Sector 12 and still the life was going great in terms of studies as till Class 7, I was an above average student with somewhat less interest in mathematics which was most of the time the bone of contention with my parents as they wanted me to be stronger on the Science and Maths stream with no purpose to make me an Engineer Babu but for the overall scorecard to get good remarks at parents teacher meeting which was done at every three months in our school, Holy Cross.

Now, the third and the last shift in the home was at Sector 6-D, 2528 where the things started taking an ugly turn as I was going through adolescent(easily boiled up behavior) and high testosterone level still not an interest towards having sex with any pretty girl in the neighborhood as most of them were going through convent education and my beautiful sister was also getting young but fortunately with stout Hindu upbringing and an Indian mindset I never dared to cross the line with any girls apart from some social banters which I received rather than giving it back as I was too shy to reply back to elder woman of the society.

So, to conclude one could say that one has to understand the way a child behaves towards his subjects in the curriculum and try to avoid slangs as in today's world since the early childhood the child has to listen to all kinds of demeaning words whether in the society which may relate to their parents or maybe their girlfriends which come at an easy manner these days to even children of young age. The only thing needs to be done is that do not coax them to share their thoughts but rather be sure about their social presence and also the kind of friendship they do have in their life.

A person at any cost should not indulge in the child girlfriend or boyfriend which is like giving a better piece of yours to them however tempted you to feel and keep it for the better days in life as if there are any chances to get that pretty one she or he may come up but do not lay him or her in front of your child. This is a very big statement which needs to be understood as it creates a very bad impact on the mind of children in the long run.

So, give them enough freedom to understand the world but define the social status which is like to say that do not become Shiney Ahuja who could run behind a maid and at the same time do not be a Gulshan Grover who could go any extent for a girl and rather take the path of a person with some moral behaviour to carry on with a good character and then for helping them with love there are many like-minded woman and men for which a person does not have to stand out of the gated society!