Monday, 12 February 2018

Being single is better than getting exploited

Another Valentine coming up with people trying to show their love interest, some in the name to give a boost to their ego. Others trying to stick to their partners in the name of giving the society an assumption that everything is well between them. Also, there are few who are deeply in love with each other. If jealousy can be considered a factor in every field then India tops the chart in being the country where everything is given a jealous look.

A person getting a new job, car, good results in studies, great family, new house or success giving him a thumbs up- everything in India goes through only one measurement i.e. called Being jealous! Every other person around you if have time will be saying aji ise kuch ho jaye....phir to sab kuch mera! It's such a preconceived notion that some of us wonder that Is the Indian law so stupid that if something happens to any person everything gets distributed to all the people of society.

It clearly shows that we as Indias do not have any mutual love and respect for any individual among us. If we talk about women they try to be in multiple relationships and have one thing in mind to get the most out of a man without giving them the unconditional love and support. It might happen that the girl has not got the right partner in life but does it make sense to run behind a person who tries to give his life another try and pull him down just to satisfy the women-centric ego in her.

From, the job to business along with media and sports everywhere India is trying to give equal opportunity to women. It's easy to call a person womanizer but what about the women who in the name of freedom try to exploit the other man and build multiple relationships. If decency is the key to a job which a person practices then why he is looked down upon in society?

Why he has to hear words chal gand me hath dal de which is a challenging sentence as it can give issues in both ways. If the person does not give any response he has to listen "kinnar hai sala....and unfortunately if he tries then advantage uthayega be..."

I do not mean to harm the image of any women neither pulling the legs lest the Women activist should start running behind me. But if we see the frustration in women through anyways then one finds that the women across the world or even Pakistan are placed on better pedestals where they can make the right decisions about their career, marriage or even love interest.

With the society being the same who can go to any extent to prove a person wrong an educated person can feel pity for the nation. This is the only reason when such an educated person goes to any foreign destination he is given a lowly job because of the intellectuality in them and most of the time its the women folk whom one finds in the form of security guards, tattoo artist along with cleaners and various other such lowly jobs such as massaeur and also in prostitution.

Most of the women gang in Delhi and India who also have their Godmother as the women who involve the educated girls into prostitution racket it makes a bit afraid to approach a girl these days just taking into consideration that she might be into any criminal activities. With, stealing of everything from money, purse and even the certificates it makes an easy prey to men folk who gets into the vicinity of women as men suffer more from longingness and desperation thus losing everything from their identity to the self-respect.

Personally, I feel that being single is better than being exploited and with these words which are of my own, year after year i.e. from one valentine to another I remained single, rather than being in love with someone who could use sinister ways to take out everything from me whether it is my home, car, health or happiness. Also, I keep myself deprived of sex which does not take me into the league of a brothel visitor and I feel content when I reach home at my society that I am unlike others who run behind with pants down after every woman and also it goes vice versa for women folks.

After all, if we see our military or para-military force along with Policewomen and men they look more fit and spend years outside without sex which is just a state of mind. One could feel relaxed by hugging a tree or an animal and feel equally happy or elated rather than being in an abusive relationship which hurts directly on the mind and thus gives a pain in the mind!




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