The Indian man is either born smart or is known to make fool out of you. Whether, it is about love, sex or money they never differ to either beg, borrow or steal for it. With any movie you watch or any Television serial one will find the smartest of the hunk begging for sex whether from his eyes or from the words along with the deeds as well. There are very few who know how to give respect to them and try to give equal status to the opposite sex while at the time not ruling them.
It is not the mindset of man but also if you get married to someone you will find that the entire family on the bride's end expect you to get on the toes and literally kneel down before them whether you would have asked for dowry or a dowryless marriage. In this way, one could understand that Being Chauvinistic is only in the movies of the Koreans and the Chinese who fight out even with their woman in Bruce Lee style rather than kneeling down before them to have sex and most of the time in their movies one could find a great fight between the woman and the other males fighting with each other with same or greater energy and thus winning the heart of each other.
But, here once you reach a certain age one expects no fighting but the camaraderie which one could find in my school batchmate at Holy Cross School, Bokaro Steel City since our inception at the school during the year 1982-1983 and most of us have reached to greater heights in life excluding me as I consider myself to be just a Writer who is Content with his work.
Now, thinking about the Friendship me as a person was the one who used to obey everyone and had equal Love and Respect for Senior, Juniors, Teachers and Staff Members and could be found fighting over nondescript issues with teachers, not for my own issues but for other Friends who generally were not argumentative maybe they were too humble and I being vociferous was the one to retaliate most of the time which made me popular as a kid.
The bigger jolt in our life come when our entire classmates got distributed into various sections which were A, B, C and D still all of us were close to each other and with no or less chance of going to any of the friend's home as my father was strict with his thoughts that the children should not roam out of their home without parents supervision it made me a very homely child and also my smart and decent younger sister was there to shower all her attention on me although she was the one who could beat me up with no mercy at all during childhood.
Still, it made me very near to my family and in spite of having a bigger family with Grandfather and Grandmother along with the entire paternal family which use to stay in the different sector as we together with our Dog "Moti" used to be a happier lot during childhood and the only intrusion which we hated together as the family was occasional visit from the maternal side of the family as somewhere down the line we did not feel getting close to them and were ready to pass on the dig to them at small thoughts which were generally done from my end.
Now, talking about "Teach Indian man how to fish he escapes teach him to beg he does with no qualms"! as above in terms of Love one could see them begging and if any person who has raised above all whether into various progressive fields one could not see any other thing but again they go on begging in terms of opportunities and with repeated expenses on them still one could find them to get into the act of begging as they do not capitalize with the moments which has been given to them for succeeding in life.
To sum up one could say that Chauvinism is the big way to win heart instead of giving Nepotism a thought as favoring a particular family or friends group make you demean in the society and if God forbid you are a political leader then the entire effort goes for a nought as the public does not spare the leader with the likes of Congress who has given the wholehearted effort to pay only within their family members which could be seen from the Gandhi-Nehru clan and further it is reaching towards the new generation Congress leaders who has put their own parties to shame after giving much within their own family members without helping the common man with opportunities in Private Sector as compared to BJP which has come up with MAKE IN INDIA campaign to pull up many startup on the contrary Congress has MANREGA to sing for which is only unaccountable as they have the ability to pluck out money from the Government Coffers.
So, as a general belief person although being apolitical in thoughts I would urge to be wise and cast your vote towards the right candidature to give this Election Ceremony to run with good candidates for coming into power and thus give the best to your country so that it should benefit and become a nation with greater strides in every field!
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